For quite a while now I've been reading and learning from many different sources about the MGTOW movement and have come to greatly respect it. I've been a fan of Jordan Peterson and Stefan Molyneux for a long time, but I only recently discovered Sandman and was blown away by his content and the many truth bombs he effortlessly drops onto his viewers. I began learning about hypergamy, female nature, the current state of marriage and dating and was both amazed and horrified.
I never thought that a women was incapable of loving the same way men do. Despite not being a man, when I love a women I want to protect her, provide for her, and give her my everything. I want to make her happy and comfortable, I basically become a slave to her desires (I become a simp, basically). If someone asked me about my dream marraige, I would say I want a women I can come home to, one who I can trust to possibly raise my children, and a women who will give me affection and love. ... But it never crossed my mind that I would never be loved to the same degree. It felt like a punch in the throat when I learned that most women only love what their partner can provide, not the parter themselves. I'll admit to being quite young (I'm only 17) but previously my biggest fear was to one day come home and watch as my wife slapped down divorce papers and say "I dont love you anymore" before taking away my livelihood and possibly my children. The more I think about it, the more I discover that dating and love are not what they're cracked up to be. Divorce is so common I wouldnt want to take the risk, and finding a unicorn (at least in my opinion) is useless. I would much rather build and accumulate wealth (I plan to one day have my own business) than suffer the fate that many men have endured. I think MGTOW is saving a countless number of men from pain and financial ruin, and I thank God that this movement exists. I even introduced MGTOW to a good male friend of mine, hoping to save him from future pain and so far, he's come to like it quite a bit. Nonetheless, even if I'm faced with backlash for being a female, I still want to thank you all for sharing your stories and experiences. What you're doing is amazing and I hope MGTOW grows bigger, thus helping more boys and men find their own way. Keep doing what you're doing, and thank you all for teaching me valuable truths! God bless you all!