My (m20) last (and first) relationship ended a good half year ago. Then I discovered this movement and even though I dont agree with everything I read, I like the basic ideas, not striving for a romantic relationship being the main one. Also, I love to dance (the kinda dancing you do with a partner) and today has been the first time since my breakup that I went to an actual dancing party. Had a lot of fun and quickly realized that there were a few girls/young women who would be interested in me. Long story short: Not focusing on getting the girls attention, and instead focusing on my own fun made the evening even more enjoyable to me than most past dancing parties had been. Thank you guys for helping me get a new point of view and out of that emotional nothingness! Have fun going your own way!