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GYOW!

Before I proceed with my presenting, let me state I enjoy life. I have worked and studied hard most my life, enjoy my current work, not rich but have suffice money to cater for myself in life, and have close and supportive long term friends. I choose to be single, and that is how I choose to live.

Ladies: If you want something out of life, do not sit back and randomly bellow “where are all the real men, man up guys”. Go WORK for it. Stop being lazy and Woman up.However, by telling me to “man up”, I have to sacrifice all that I have worked for? Instead I’m required to run around frantically not unlike a desperate simp, asking out EVERY random female I see, until one responds “yes” and allows me the “privilege” to cater for HER desires? Do you women not state how "desperate" and "sleazy/creepy" a male who hits on every female in sight is?

By “manning up”, I am required to get another job I DON’T like in order to fund what you “decide” you deserve, i.e buy you gifts, dinners, cruises, wedding, so on so forth? And then another job when you expect to have children, fund THEM as well as yourself? “Don’t you want to start a family?” No I do not, get over it. You wish me to buy another house and car for such an occasion, until you decide to drag me with through the gynocourts and custody rigmarole and get given most of what I have had to work for?

By me “manning up”, I am supposed to ditch all my close friends when you decide to dictate to me who I am/aren't allowed to be friends with? I am meant to concede all my hobbies (yes video games is one of them) so I can work 3 jobs while you have your “ladies night outs” and “romance movie nights”, then for me come home to have to simp to you some more?

Ladies, (tradcons especially), before you use the phrase “man up”, as loosely as you do, I will state there is no “man” in simping. There is no “man’ in him being controlled or him having his life revolve around yours. I have said it previously and will say it again. If you want something, work for it. Don’t just sit on your lazy arse watching The Bachelor throwing out shaming tactics/guilt trips and expecting EVERYTHING to come throwing itself at you.

You tell men to man up, but what do yo uon your part, ladies