Hey guys, I'm 21 years old and in my last year of college in NYC. I was born and raised here and have always felt that NYC women were just assholes, after traveling around a bit I have realized that MOST women nowadays are just rude, self-righteous, manipulating people. I am asking for advice on how to at least think differently when put in scenarios with women, or how to avoid getting sucked into one. Im asking because I have (well now I guess its had) a group of female friends (only 3) who thought I was close with. But one by one they just started drifting away from me. I feel like I was used by them so they'd have someone to talk to, cry to, and protect them. But now that they don't need that they have disappeared. I have never had this problem with my homies. We may not see each other because of college but the second they're back in the city they visit and we catch up and chill. These girls live very close and I just feel like a piece of shit because I realized they never check in on me, or ask how im doing. Any advice on how to build myself and focus on myself would be great. Thanks