Advice Needed

l've been reading for a while, recently have posted. Thanks gentleman. I believe I am ready to divorce. It's time, she has serious stability issues (its effected many areas) and I believe she will be high conflict. She makes more money as I am stay at home dad and medically retired (can still work part time but don't) and it doesn't interefere with me as a parent as I am doing the vast majority of her stuff (school, drs, etc) she's a teacher also works in summers. Yes she's cheated. What can I expect as this situation is unique (child money house which with my retirement I can do on my own w kid)? Any places to look for attorneys?

Thanks