Anyone cold approach?

mrk68 · 2017-09-11T08:46:32+00:00

I started doing "no approach" and have never been happier.

RedPillMGTOW · 2017-09-11T09:27:11+00:00

Wrong sub,m8

r/theredpill

cyborg_type_darkness · 2017-09-11T08:55:37+00:00

I stood in your shoes. Let me explain it in simple words. You can either do 1000 hours of approaching or 1000 hours on a skill like playing guitar, fitness, cooking, art etc. I know you know the answer.

The point is you are trying to be interested but the fact is that you are the interesting one and the women aren't.

Above all this, you have to realize that a woman has a lot of options available to them e.g tinder, facebook, plenty of fish etc. Trust me, make a woman account and even the land whales get males approaching them. This means a lot of dick is available to them.

to make it understandable for you, imagine you get 100 girls messaging you every single day to bring you out on dates and wanting to fuck you. Why would you care if another girl number 101 approaches you on the street if you have 100 other girls messaging you? See where I am going.

If you want to build a thicker skin by getting rejected you can do it. For me, this was just an excuse because I wanted to fuck. that's why I did cold approaches but after time you realize that our time is limited. Why would you let some programming decide how you live your life instead of making your own choices.

If you want to get laid do the following things

1) become wealthy

2) get a muscular body

3) Show wealth in what you wear.

What pua gurus will tell you is a lie. If you do those three steps you will get that "pussy" more than the guy who listens to "be confident, do this or do this trick etc."

Ask yourself is it worth it. Preferably masturbate before making that decision.

Even if you get to fuck a woman what then. Possible pregnancy, std or false rape accusation for vaginal friction having your dick in a hole.

p.s you should be at the red pill sub if you want to waste time.

knxguy · 2017-09-11T12:43:17+00:00

i do the Vr approach

aanarchist · 2017-09-11T09:58:51+00:00

most women just lack basic conversation skills. the ones who are clearly interested in you they pretty much get on their back and spread their legs, sooner or later, and they'll nod their head to everything you say until you take her back to her place. cold approach is fairly simple when you're in the right mindset but you're not fooling anyone and neither is she: you want to fuck her and she wants to get fucked by a stranger/the illusion of chad. if you want your cold approaches to be better then develop your game and appearance, but personally it's a waste of time unless the pussy is that worth it to you. best relationships i've ever had was when i focused on doing what i enjoy and the women come on their own when they see value they want to suck up for themselves. if you want it and it's available then take it, but don't expect that it'll stick around forever.

WhistlingAlong · 2017-09-11T13:23:21+00:00

That was the only thing I did for a decade and now I'm mgtow. I think both things complement each other well. Good post.

Pellaeon_redpill · 2017-09-11T18:36:55+00:00

I've done somewhere in the range of 1,500-3,000 approaches. It was how I got my first kiss at 21 and how I lost my virginity at 27.

I think cold approach is the best way to "take the red pill" as in understanding how things are vs. how you want them to be

I don't know if it is the "best way," but I do believe it has more merit than many MGTOW individuals would credit it for. One of the mottos I adopted a few months before I lost my virginity was "burn your hand on the stove." I had many blue pill indicate that other red pillers and PUAs said I should never act on. But I still feel a huge compulsion to do them and I wasn't entirely sure they were wrong, so I started to just act on many of them (eg opening with "excuse me" or initiating the conversation on commitment).

In some cases, I found they were wrong. In most cases, they were right and the resulting awkward/painful experience ensured that I never felt tempted to try those behaviors again.

But I think it's important to do

Again, I'm not sure it's important for everyone, but it certainly was for me. If I hadn't lost my virginity, I would have a lot more stress to deal with. It's like there was some voice constantly whispering into my subconscious that I'm missing out on life's best experience. That voice was silenced when I lost the v-card and sex no longer seems like a big deal to me.

I'm 90% certain that it would still be a big deal to me if I hadn't. I've heard some other people say it never really bothered them though, so it's probably not important for them.

I rarely approach anymore though. I did it for a day back in June, and then it was months before I did one day the last time. I've arrived at that point where I feel the juice is no longer worth the squeeze.

I don't regret the time and experience I put in though. It's valuable to me in that I know I've essentially done everything I could have done, and anyone who tries to tell me that I'm deluded about women is full of shit. Most of them haven't put in even a quarter of the effort I have.

Title	Anyone cold approach?
Author	sevenoreight21
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	September 11, 2017 8:13 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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