Hello, fellow men.

Despite the knowledge about females, trp, hypergamy and so forth, falling into the trap that women put up, is surprisingly easy.

Since I live my life on the dangerous side (I still engage with females, although not cohabitating or marrige), I sometimes catch myself in letting my guard down, and let a female become a treasured person in my life.

It's when this happens, that I pull out (pun intended), and through that avoid the process further escalating into full-blown dopamine-induced stupidity.

The signs that I look for are the following:

  • Worried when she does not reply in a positive tone/smileys/whatever

  • Put her needs above my own

  • Prioritizing time with her above friends and/or family

  • Sudden changes in hobbies and leasure activities

  • Being restless when alone

  • Constantly checking phone/messenger

  • Increased activity on social media.

I know that I could avoid all of this, by completely cutting off women, but for me, I enjoy the challenge and hunt - despite the risks involved.

If you, as I, engage in this dangerous field, what signs do you look for in your person, as a warning sign of "falling in love" ?