I've been friends with her for 5+ years. Never was interested in her romantically because of her poor life choices. But I did enjoy getting high with her, wingmaning/wingwomaning with her, and just talking about life. Last summer there was some drama and when I confronted her she broke down and said she was starting to have feelings for me and that if we kept hanging out she wouldn't help but want to do 'more' with me. I told her I was down to be fwb as long as I'm the only guy she is fucking. I honestly don't have romantic feelings for her. I was down to have a companion style relationship with her. Because she had been my friend for over 5 years I trusted her. I treated her with respect, thinking it was reciprocal. The sex was good at first but I started to feel like she was taking more attention from me than I was getting sex from her. Inconsistencies in her behavior made me feel like she was definitely seeing other men. So I broke it off with her.

~6 months later she practically invites herself over to my house with innuendo that we would be fucking. She came over and it was awesome. Like so fucking perfect. She went through all the motions to make me believe she was ready to be exclusive. Extremely intimate bonding session that really made me believe that I was the only guy she could be interested in. We talked and again she only wanted to be fwb, but she agreed to exclusivity. Great right?

The problem was that her behavior was then inconsistent with exclusivity. We went a whole month without banging, but she still wanted to come over and cuddle weekly. Stupid on my part I know, but I believed the excuses. I questioned her heavily about what her wants were and I got even more inconsistencies. I called her out on the inconsistent behavior, being hypergamous, not respecting me as a 5+ yr friend. That night I know she went over to a new guys place and I called her out on it. Radio silence has ensued.

The important theme of this story is the 'spell' she attempted to cast on me. It was one great afternoon and it almost worked. If I wasn't redpilled I would have been fooled into thinking I was the only guy she was seeing since she treated me so special. She wanted me to play the role of boyfriend while she continued to date other guys.

I'm just really upset that she tried to manipulate me, fuck her.