It’s been a month since my LTR ended. In that month I have taken to introspection and I am slowly recovering from a case of ONEitis.

The past 6 years I have been in two LTR’s. One after the next with no gap in between. Here is how I screwed myself over.

LTR1 - - Moved in together after 3 days of “dating” - Sex dried up after 1 year - Two years paying for all her shit while she was jobless - Quit my job, tried to start a business and started losing money - Because I started losing money she started hanging out with the director of her company - Ended up cheating on me with him

LTR2 - - moved in together after 1 month - Moved country to be together - Business took a hit and she got a job in a super yacht company - Business continued to takes hits and the sex dried up - Broke up after 1.5 years, still living together - She’s off banging rich dudes every night (after 2 days of being broken up) while I’m home trying to sort my shit out to move out.

So yes, in retrospect AWALT, sometimes it just takes some serious damage to see it. Staying single now, suffering the pain of this break up and definitely going to GMOW