Dumb bitch: So when can I come in your place again? Me: ... Dumb bitch: 5 minutes of barely coherent hamstering about why I should let her in Me: ... death stare Dumb bitch: clueless hamstering, completely without blame, fault, or understanding of one's own actions

Now here's what this dialogue looked like in English:

Dumb bitch: Hey, I know I broke or stole 4k worth of your shit the last time I came in but can I do it again? Me: ... Dumb bitch: Oh come on, you were completely in the wrong for (stuff that didn't actually happen), you should let me in for (minor irrelevant benefit worth far less than 4k a visit). Me: ... death stare Dumb bitch: As a WOMAN you should go along with everything I want even if it only hurts you for no reason!

0 understanding, 0 responsibility for one's own actions, 0 awareness she is only not brutally lawyer raped by my misplaced kindness, 0 awareness of just how tenuous her position is in mine or anyone else's life...

AWALT. Even if you aren't fucking them they are fucking over you.