big bro talk

lawndart1000 · 2020-01-02T19:49:58+00:00

Where are the men in your life? Dad, Grandfathers, Uncles? Any MEN that you can turn to?

0ortcloudclown · 2020-01-02T19:53:37+00:00

Keep doing what you are doing but you may have to get yourself more than seasonal work. Its not right what your mother is doing parents are supposed to help you get a leg up. Depending on where you are living rent can be manageable. Knuckle down nut up and handle it stay strong lil bro. Roomates at your age is also a good option.

MoonshineGuy859 · 2020-01-02T20:02:59+00:00

You need money and to move out. But don't jump from the frying pan to the fryer.

If you don't have a car, find a job and a place to live within walking distance of each other. Keep your expenses low, work all the hours you can. Take any job you can find until you get a nest egg.

If you haven't been kicked out, stay gone. Work, work, work. Find a roommate or four and tranisition out.

Buy a van and you never have to worry about being homeless. A man can save up quite a sum working all the time and living mobile. Check out JJ Luna's website. He has an ebook about living out of a travel trailer, cargo trailer, van.

You're young. All you need is three hots and a cot and an income. Avoid girls for now unless it is just to get laid. Avoid even that if you can. Don't get into any long-term relationship right now for sure, no matter how appealing it is.

Build your empire. You need six months fuck-you money put back.

After your immediate needs are met - security in food, shelter, clothing and transportation, then you can start thinking long-term. Learning a trade a skill, starting a business.

AVOID ALCOHOL AND DRUGS. At this stage in your life they can derail the train and lead to intense suffering and death.

morpheushaze · 2020-01-02T20:27:59+00:00

Hope for the best, be ready for the worst.

The_original_Maccyx · 2020-01-02T23:15:15+00:00

It’s not the easiest thing...but it’s possible. Granted I had a scholarship for college, but I moved out at 17...and I never went back. Went through some very lean years in my early 20’s but I lived within my means. I’d be better off financially today had I not had a 13 year anchor tied around my neck, but I’m doing a whole hell of a lot better than most because I didn’t have it handed to me and I earned every bit of it. I sucked it up when I had to, did without, put in the long hours. It may not seem worth it at first, but one day it will be and you’ll see why. Now...why she’s giving you the boot - that’s a question for her, but I wouldn’t sit around waiting for the other shoe to drop. Better to be prepared than to be sorry.

Bourbonandcigars06 · 2020-01-03T01:04:18+00:00

Sorry, can be diffuse to know her real intent.

If you don’t have financial means to take care of yourself military is a great start in life

Learn discipline, paid and have room and board, get good education, go into good field that can use after,

Was best thing that happened to me and is a great path. Not for everyone as it can be tough. No problems with parents but didn’t know where was going. Has gotten me Into job right away after getting out. Sure times can suck but no bills, no loans, stability as long as you do t do stupid shit

Endofthewest · 2020-01-02T23:44:08+00:00

She is probably just venting on you...

Let her know that you understand her frustration but she can not make another person's basic need, housing, be threatened when she wants to vent.

You need her help now and really appreciate all she does for you...and you need to have a sense of security...so, venting in a way that threatens your basic life need, is very very stressful.

If she encourages you to leave, do her a favor. remind her at how she was when you needed her, and express to her that this will have an affect on your relationship for many many years.

You need her now to help you accomplish your education, and she must be committed to that, or you will never feel secure while living there, and that is not good.

Allow her to be part of and share in your goals and success...she deserves that too, as I am sure that she is proud of you and what you are doing.

Slavaodin · 2020-01-03T07:54:04+00:00

Is rough out there man I would try convincing your mom to stay at her place until you get your associates degree then plan to move out.

kubicas · 2020-01-03T13:20:30+00:00

Also remember to forget about your mom in her old age (no fucking mercy) if she kicks you out when you need her support. Kick her out then too. Im glad Im coming from Europe where family doesnt kick out their kids at 18 like in a fucked up America. Sure If you were a bum youd deserve it but fuck, youre in college preparing for future still.

Title	big bro talk
Author	im_youngsimbah
Upvotes	19
Comments	16
Date	January 2, 2020 7:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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