After taking the redpill I went back and took it Raw and realized that you have to move forward in life with an absolute focus based on logic.

See I have covered this issue before about child support, & I have realized that woman parade the children as a trophy they have won for placing you the father on child support. That you as a man need to realize that these children are not yours but rather property of your baby mother and the government.

What you must do is that you must and this is the hardest thing to do is let her have the children because they are no longer your child or children they are a bill. In the long run it will be the best thing for your children, because if you remain in their life or struggle to you will normalize that this is how a father that cares for his children should be. Besides it will be better for them in the long run to if they overcome their mothers control to reach out to you. Who is independent and strong on your own . This will further the fact that their mother be left behind a good man, instead of visiting or having to search for a homeless or struggling man.

It will not be easy it will be the hardest thing to do, but you have to understand that you whether you had good intentions or not choice to empower her to where you are a prisoner of the state for over 18 years with child support. So to crawl out of this hell you have to sacrifice your connection to the heart that you gave her your seed. At the end of the day from a more animalistic aspect you already passed your seed.