China trip guy

lorddoorknocker · 2019-06-05T07:21:01+00:00

there is nothing wrong with being alone.

I can't offer more than that except "Be Safe" and don't hurt yourself.

IF you can, try finding the earbuds and spend time on the exercise bike. I always thought it was a good way to waste time when I couldn't stand watching a documentary, reading, or the computer.

-Governator · 2019-06-05T07:36:55+00:00

Hey guys I finally am on that trip last couple of days here in this program. Honestly I'm drained and feeling very homesick. Been having to deal with this group for awhile and honestly I thought being with other engineers I would find others like me. I was wrong. Maybe there is something truly wrong with me or I'm just too intelligent or something I don't know.

Brother, it is not simple to find people like yourself. In fact, you shouldn't look for them at all - as you properly pointed out, what you want is the people who care about you and wish you the best. Those are rare, and even then there are a lot of types that aren't fully trustworthy - they're only good for certain aspects.

(For example, I have a friend who has helped me a lot with programming, but he gives horrible financial advice.)

Do keep trying to look for those people, though, the more people you interact with - the more you are to find a good friend, it's as simple as that, and there's no good shortcuts that I know of.

Now at the point my meds aren't handling my depression as much. Haven't felt like eating since lunch yesterday and been in bed nearly 14 hours if not more. Tried to do this tried to over come my anxiety and social issues but it seems I still need a lot of personal growth before I can even integrate into society. I'm tired so exhausted of people telling me how to handle my issues when they clearly have no idea what I'm going through and being told they care but their actions showing otherwise.

Man, it sucks for you, I get it. The problem is, the world is really cruel - and very few people give a fuck about you, really (even if they claim otherwise). You're the only one who can deal with your problems, others can't or won't help. Keep trying to deal with the issues and finding out more about yourself when it comes to them. But you're on the right path as you understand the need for self improvement - keep it up!

My example for exploring my likes/hates/feelings: I hated camp trips for no reason until I realized that I actually hate flying insects instead. I go on camp trips now - and they're quite enjoyable - as long as I have bug repellents, creams and numbing balms with me. Fuck bugs, I'm not letting them dictate my life. I've singled out the thing I did not like and I dealt with it - I suggest you to try the same, but do be thorough and exact while doing it.

I don't know this is more of a venting post than anything. I did more than enough for the group project and gave them all my notes more than enough to finish without me and I couldn't care about done shitty certificate of completion. I feel better staying in my room isolated from everyone till I can take the trip home where my pets are waiting for me. The ones who actually care.

Pets are cool, but your issues won't go away if you just stay alone. If you don't mind random redditor's advice - walk back, feel like shit, try to understand why, try to isolate it. When it becomes unbearable - you can still just go back and rest alone, but try to keep pushing your limits and learn more and more about yourself as much as possible. Always remember you have the safe option to stay alone, but don't be dependent on it.

Good luck, brother, and take care of yourself.

Title	China trip guy
Author	anonylaw2
Upvotes	18
Comments	6
Date	June 5, 2019 5:45 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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