As a guy in my 30s, I have been dating several women over the last decade. Lots of very attractive women that could basically get any guy to bed them. I've been in long monogamous relationships, casual relationships, all of it. What have I learned?

The main lesson I have learned is that ALL relationships are casual relationships. Serious, committed, exclusive relationships are nothing more than an illusion. Women are NEVER really committed to you. EVER.

  1. A woman's commitment is as consistent as her emotions, as her emotions dictate her decisions. A woman can be in absolute love with you, and in some cases hours later, be out of love and have another dudes dick in her mouth, only to come back a few days later begging and pleading to rekindle the relationship. I have seen this MANY times and have experienced it many times. In my experience, women cheat far more as well. I have seen way more women fuck around behind guys backs than vice versa. Why? because it's easy for them. I'm relatively certain the vast majority of women I dated cheated on me also.

  2. Women sleep around MORE than men do. Women want sex as much as men, but from what I have seen, it's more for validation and power than it is for sexual pleasure. Women get off on getting plowed by random chad because of the validation of a new dick. It's also insanely easy for women. They go out any night of the week, go back to a random chads house, fuck, and you'll never be the wiser. Can happen in 2 hours any time of the day, any guy, any where, any moment. The opportunity to fuck and cheat is EVERYWHERE for them 24/7. Most women have a body count that would put even the biggest male players to shame. Not to mention the guy friend bullshit, social media, whatever the fuck.

  3. Why would you let a woman lead your life. Every time I was in a committed relationship I realized how fucking stupid I was because I was letting an irrational child make decisions that affected me. Why would you bind yourself to a child and let that child make the decisions? Decisions like where you live, where you move, financial decisions whatever. Even DUMBER why would you MARRY A WOMAN BASED ON THIS.

If you want to have sex with women, have sex. But commitment is a TRICK. It's a dirty trick. Women are NEVER committed and majorly are incapable of it, and only pursue commitment as a way to secure control over you while she rides the cock carousel.

The biggest myth is women want commitment as in a committed relationship. Yeah, they want YOUR commitment. Women are not the ones who can commit, it's men.

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