My original post was deleted and I can imagine why. To follow is my delayed response to whomever it was.
I have no problem with the post being deleted. My original post was talking about doing something stupid and was directly related to keeping a chick in rotation. What I needed to hear was the voice of, then General Ackbar, proclaiming "It's a traaaap!" Not the retort of an name-calling MGTOW brother.
Mine is that of being able to pull NSA nookie when needs be and I'm sure AF not going to pay for it. The "P," should always be free!
This is where I am at on my journey. It's mine to live until I see fit to let old things pass away.
Let's get on with it then...
Reply: I accept that and those were exactly the type of things I needed to hear... Well kind of...
I am now just checking on replies a month later. By the way, shortly after my post, a small voice in my head said let it go and get back to work. Still, all is good and I am woman free.
Now for the shaming narrative i.e. "captain-save-a-hoe," and "the power of 10-simps." Brah! You don't know me, trying to act as if you do. F' ottah here!
You know what? Your reply validated something I have noticed about this community. In some cases (not all), it seems as if some member's egos or prowess, as a result of their own successes, is used to suppress others.
Just because a MF'ah is thinking about it or just airing stuff out, doesn't mean they are going to do it. That's why dudes reach out to communities like this. The reasoning could be to hear the things they already know. Or perhaps,they are in need of hearing the truth form others who have had the same thoughts-or have beaten the call of testosterone, when it comes to the opposite sex.
What are fellahs for anyways?
Just a kind suggestions here, but try being constructive not destructive. How are members suppose to air their thoughts, gain incite or grow if they can expect to be shut down, shamed or publicly humiliated? Not a single one of us is strong 24/7, 100% of the time. With certainty, all of us are getting our minds right as we see fit.
Taking the Red Pill and working on changing old programming doesn't just happen over night. GYOW takes time too...
So I respectfully request that you consider first, the shame you transmit and for what reason. What positive intent were you after?
I understand that this may have been perceived as hypocrisy transgressed; however, I didn't have to call this person out his name to get my point across?
Less the unintended hypocrisy, I pointed out a problem, offered a solution and hopefully that was not discounted during your consideration.
Good day fellas. Be well.
G_A
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