So, I've recently became single after a 6 year relationship. I moved her into my house shortly after a few months of dating because I had gotten her pregnant and her parents wouldve killed her, during this time I've paid all the Bill supported her through college been a loving and doting father to my tiny human who honnestly is the best thing in the universe to me. Even took care of her during her failing health and auto immune disorders that have poped up shortly after giving birth to our child, I needed more out of a relationship I needed affection attention love, I was basically treated as the bill payer who was expected to pay all the Bill's and do all of the house work because I was the healthy one, I admit I'd lost my cool a few times about demanding more, demanding I needed a partner, but now I'm alone and labeled the abusive asshole by her family, apparently a mans needs mean nothing, no marriage to divorce the split was amicable and everything was split super fairly my house(inherited) is firmly safe and finances other than a bit of debt from house projects is well in check, the custody agreement is as close to 50/50 as humanly possible due to living an hour apart and the little one starting school soon (she moved back in with her parents), the child support isnt a financial ammount but was wrote by my cousin who specializes in this sort of thing leaving that the money I do send her is accounted for ( i.e I keep insurance on my child or pay the cost of adding the child to her plan, I can eaither send X$ to my ex or pay the car insurance for her, for school lunches I can put X on her books monthly or buy a share of her items required for lunches she can bring to school) so it's all fair and good and legal in the world...but gentlemen, I need life advice any tips you can give me on dealing with this whole thing, even the little simple things, how to get back out their and be myself how to spruce up my life how to go my own way and meet my own needs, I'm 30..I wasted my last half of my twenties I dont wanna waste the rest of my life, I didnt have my dad for very long in this world but the one thing he did teach me was to ask for help and advice to thouse who have done it before you, so thank you inadvance and please excuse my typos and grammatical errors, it was never my strong suit