Been looking for some girls to have some fun with and a lot of them talk a good game and then insist on first having a "traditional date". Last time I did that, I bought an expensive dinner and the girl flaked on me every night after that and I wasted about 2 months of my time on her. Just say no. There are women who will come to your crib without making you jump through all the hoops. Though it seems most women are looking to date and dump.