The more I accept the fact that I have no use for women in my social life, the more issues I have with my male friends and their girlfriends or wives.

Example: My brother comes over to my house after Christmas with our family - as usual on holidays we get whiskey drunk and engage in high fuck-offery. Earlier this year, his girlfriend moved in with him, and ever since I've felt like I'm losing him one piece at a time. She came with, and was an absolute cunt the entire night. She sat outside on the phone for hours, so I had to smoke in my garage instead of on my back patio. When she did come inside she just gave us mean looks and silent treatment.

Later in the evening after we were good and liquored up, she started being downright mean to my brother - I was pretty drunk, so I don't recall exact situations, but I have fuzzy memories of her yelling at him and calling him names and they ordered an Uber home.

Another example: After I broke up with my last girlfriend, I went to watch a football game with my buddy and his girlfriend (who is literally the ONLY girlfriend I really like and am friends with). When she asked where my gf was, and I told her I dumped her, she got really mad at me. Ultimately, she was furious because I was happy to be single, and had NO interest in finding "the right woman" - we argued for hours because she insisted I was being irrational and just haven't found "the right woman" (which is obviously fairy tale bullshit... let's be adults, boys.) We haven't talked since.

Bottom line - this is just an example of problems I have with all of my closest friends. Hell, the married ones I just never see anymore (except for the rare party I'm invited to and then treated like a leper because I show up solo with a bottle of bourbon instead of with some woman they can all interrogate about marriage - but seriously, fuck those parties, especially the ones with a bunch of kids).

I KNOW these women see me as a HUGE threat. Just curious how you all deal with it. Sometimes it seems going my own way alienates me too much from my best male friends.