Dealing with Hypergamy

45 points•35 comments•submitted by Diary-of-Jane to r/RedPillWomen

I've been married for 7 years, we're both in early 30s. No kids. My husband loves me, and love him too. I've met a guy on social media and talked to him a little, things started to become romantic, then i let him know im married. So we stopped chatting. For some reason he got stuck in my head and i check his social media page once in a while. He's still single.

I was wondering if there's something wrong with me mentally, and came across hypergamy theory. I dont exactly compare him to my husband but he has some qualities in him that i like, for example, he has a very attractive face and eyes, as well as physically in shape, and he leads an active lifestyle i like. If i were to meet him before my husband Im pretty sure we'd be together.

But at the same time, i love my husband, i just want to get this guy out of my head.

What are your thoughts/experience?