Devastated

DangZagnut · 2018-11-20T17:26:09+00:00

"Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way."

You're aware of it, then change how you react to it. if society says don't open an umbrella indoors, open an umbrella indoors. You don't have to follow your programming if you don't want to.

When you're aware of it, you can decide how you want to approach it.

BoskOfPortKar · 2018-11-20T17:20:05+00:00

Read the Gor Chronicles and look what a mess women can do of you.

Then be a man.

Tarl has been there.

Look at yourself like a stranger would do it for you (you can visualize it) and laugh about sometimes behaving like a simp.

801735 · 2018-11-20T17:24:41+00:00

It's only in ram, reset, don't re-run after boot.

MadPreacher1AD · 2018-11-20T17:30:12+00:00

How do you let go of the programming done by society.

By performing a thorough job of self reflection and introspection to see what you want to be. When you see things you want to change then you change them.

axonMagnus · 2018-11-20T18:01:18+00:00

Do you know what brifaults law is?

2018-11-20T17:51:13+00:00

Meditation and self reflexion. You need to identify what feelings are triggered bcoz you're a male (sexual, maybe) and what was programmed in your mind by movies and society in general (how to behave next to women or that you need to pay, etc.)

Your natural needs you can fight to control (you're not a dog who seeks sex all day) and what was programmed you can erase and build new principles to live your life as you wish. Consider those principles the starting point to your hobbies and projects.

About forgetting her, you will never, bcoz it was an experience you had and your mind will remember it (specially the bad ones so you dont make the same mistakes again), but everything else takes time bcoz you probably invested too much in your relationship and got played.

veasel79 · 2018-11-20T18:00:35+00:00

It was just a role in a bullshit movie man, your free ! When you want to relive memories of her that create this warm and fuzzy lie just pause and reflect on the negatives that were closer to reality.

You are free to be you and who you want to be without having to check in with anyone or maintaining some bullshit identity or passing some shit test she/society laid out for u.

Do things you normally wouldn't have, go places that you want and remind yourself of the comfort that comes with the only person you had to check in with was yourself. In time my man you'll be alright just takes some time re adjust .

Wampyr420 · 2018-11-20T19:05:46+00:00

Stop being a pussy. It's women that are meant to sit by the window day dreaming. Go get shit done and achieve stuff, challenge yourself and succeed or fail and try again. Nobody will ever love you like your mom you gotta move on from that or get ran over.

MarketWatcher9456 · 2018-11-20T17:56:48+00:00

Time brother. It takes time.

Title	Devastated
Author	jerry408
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	November 20, 2018 5:16 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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