Dilemma

StealthMister · 2017-12-02T13:24:44+00:00

Hey brother. First I think you already know the answer to your dilemma.

You need to come to terms with your decision yourself not from what we can share.

Maybe play this out in your mind though - lets say your son asks for similar advice . . . Would you tell him to stay or move forward and conquer the world ?

Stay mgtow stay strong

st_nougat · 2017-12-02T15:50:31+00:00

You're asking a group of men who have opted out of long term relationships what to do about your long term relationship.

You know what they will say.

Go your own way my friend. It might hurt and be hard at first but hopefully you will find it as rewarding as most of us have. And if not there are plenty of AWALTS in the sea

lone_nordic_wolf · 2017-12-02T13:44:24+00:00

Sounds like a dose of red pill brother would help. Look inside yourself, honor your gut instincts, and make a decision.

You don’t need a woman to complete you or your life.

falselyaccusedguy234 · 2017-12-02T11:56:34+00:00

Sounds like it's over.

Shit is hard, but the sooner and quicker the better. Dragging it out based on some false perception of the nature of relationships is pointless. They start, they're fun, they drag on, they turn to shit, they end.

somuchluv2give · 2017-12-02T11:59:43+00:00

3 yr mark is usually when it all crumbles. Science shows that’s when attraction between two people begins dropping and there’s nothing u can do to stop it. Depending on her age by then she’s usually pushing for cohabitation, marriage, kids. Some sort of serious commitment. “Where is this going” etc. Etc. Women are not able to just chill like men are in an “if it ain’t broke don’t fix it” type of situation. The relationship always has to be propelling forward towards some new goal, which is frustrating and annoying, but makes sense. For us men, we have captured a satisfactory mate and she is giving us the sex we require so we are content, we don’t require anything further. But for women they have that biological clock going tick tock, tick tock, so they need to rush things towards marriage and kids, and find out if you’re serious or if yours just wasting her time.

goodbeertimes · 2017-12-02T16:11:38+00:00

she wants to move on because she can't justify a relationship where she keeps hurting me.

So can't she do something very simple and very obvious : not keep hurting you?

Look, this clearly smells of infidelity. There is some guy who is sleeping with behind your back and she prefers that you break the relationship so that she don't have to carry the guilt of breaking up.

If masochism is your thing, well, enjoy.

Title	Dilemma
Author	wiseoldsanta
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	December 2, 2017 11:43 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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