does anyone else have motivational problems?

Victor2601 · 2019-03-27T08:50:02+00:00

This may not sound like much advice but sometimes you just have to go against what you feel like doing and do what you have to. A lot of people who are motivated or have a strong work-ethic are just simply prioritising what is actually important for their future. I personally don't find motivation in much else, I just have to think about what is actually worth my time. When you have options there's usually one you'll regret not taking. Eating right, sleeping well and staying active (especially on days I'm feeling sluggish) helps keep me in the right mind-set too.

monkensteinxstupido · 2019-03-27T13:34:06+00:00

Why do you need to have feelings before you do something?

SEE THAT IS THE TRAP. WHY are we so hellbent on RELYING on EMOTIONS to power our lives?

Emotions are fickle and whimsical, they are easily manipulated, and they are also HELLA FEMALE.

Men are logical. WE try to do what makes sense and WE FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT AFTERWARDS.

Women always try to cheat the game - AND FEEL GOOD FOR FREE BEFORE THEY EVEN DO SOME SHIT. It doesn't work that way for men.

Stop trying to make it.

Why do you need to have feelings before you do something?

This is the paralyzing POISON that women, the media, and SOCIETY has passed on to men. FEELINGS.

It's how men got WEAK and FAT and TURNED TO SJW SOYS.

I'm trying NOT to have motivation problems - You are putting the cart before the horse.

I am trying to accomplish something, and IGNORE all the PRATTLE in my head telling me to eat doritos and lay in bed,

And instead, MOVE PAST THAT NOISE, Do something, AND THEN SEE HOW I FEEL.

And you know how I feel AFTER I do something?

Better every single time.

If you want to FEEL like a millionare BEFORE you become a millionaire, THATS SOME OPRAH MINDFUCK-PSYCHO BABBLE. Why?

BECAUSE you can only imagine (which is more feelings/delusions), and you cant even do that right BECAUSE you don't have the slightest CLUE what MINDSET THE PERSON HAD TO BE IN TO BECOME A MILLIONARE, NOR What it means to have those resources and resposibilites. ALL THE IMAGINING is done from a female point of view where she sits in unwashed sweatpants, eats doritios, and through the power of magic, BAM she FEELS LIKE A MILLIONARE!

WHY not push through the feelings, use logic, create your thing, become a millionare, and THEN ENJOY IT?

I'm not coming down on you op. IM COMING DOWN ON ME.

WHY AND WHEN AND HOW did we men become people who want shit for free (like the feelings or assurances of victory, i.e. motivation) before we even start?

This is evident if you ever ask an older man for his wisdom. They have a quiet, "yes, no, or do it and see what happens attitude."

There is no emotional back and forthwith them.Its facts, taking action, getting results, and enjoying or living through the outcome.

YOU DONT NEED MOTIVATION, YOU NEED TO MAKE A DECISION, AND ACT ON IT.

You are a MAN. YOU get paid in feelings AFTER YOU DO THE JOB.

NOT BEFORE, during, and after, like a woman.

GET YOUR ASS UP. Spend as much time on YOURSELF organizing EVERY PARTY OF YOUR LIFE to the level of detail you want it. You will be pleasantly SURPRISED TO FIND OUT, THE REASON YOU LACK MOTIVATION AND ORGANIZATION is because YOU DIDNT ENDULGE YOUR MAN-PROBLEM SOLVING BRAIN ENOUGH TO KEEP YOU INTERESTED.

You may find if you fully engage your brain on one problem at a time, with the goal TO SOLVE IT FOR LIFE, even if you take 3 days just to come up with one solution - CONGRATULATIONS MAN! THAT problem is SOLVED FOR LIFE!

Think BATMAN LEVEL Contingency problem solving for EACH AND EVERY SCENEARIO you have a problem with.

You will find the big problem variables INVOLVE women and other people. Remove them. Focus on YOU.

How do you remove them peacefully from your mind? See them all dead. They're all dead now.

NOW WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM?

NEVERMIND motivation. Get off your ass now and DO SOMETHING! Take action NOW. ESPECIALLY when you don't want to. ESPECIALLY when you feel all mopey doing it.

It's just like crying for men. IT's not going to do shit. Any emotion is not going to do shit.

FIGHT.THROUGH.THE EMOTION.

Feel bad, and put your pants on. Feel bad, and go for a run. LISTEN AFTER YOUR DONE.

Are you unmotivated because you aren't prepared/involved enough?

Or are you unmotivated BECAUSE YOU SECRETLY DO NOT WANT THAT GOAL AT ALL?

Everything is MASKED in society, women's, and media's EMOTIONS and REASONS and GOALS running around in our heads.

BE REAL WITH YOURSELF. Find out and see what YOU really want and what have to do to get it.

And begin.

See, you already started, no motivation necessary.

I blame the feminism.

Toshiba1point0 · 2019-03-27T11:27:02+00:00

There are a lot of factors but forgetting yourself is the first step. You don’t think about the time it takes to wash the dishes, you just start with the first one. Feeling is just perception from dopamine output. Trust me on this and don’t give your task a lot of thought. This is coming from me, one of the most self-conscious procrastinators on the planet. Happy to elaborate but I want to start by letting you know it’s all in your head.

o0perfect0o · 2019-03-27T13:03:14+00:00

read some philosophy and learn to flow with life man. Your brain is afraid to leave it's comfort zone but if you can change your perspective on life, you'll make leaps and bounds because you'll no longer identify or attach emotion to your actions. You'll just do. And just be. Like a human being should.

GrisBosque · 2019-03-27T08:38:19+00:00

Yeah...

Thats the battle... you have to beat that.... The rest is just establushing good habits.

Older_Miggy · 2019-03-27T14:47:16+00:00

Yes, very much so.

My week starts well, then typically fades. It's today that I need to fight thru that.

I also have some great ideas but take forever to follow up on. Waste too much time. Not good at any age, much less mine.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2019-03-27T14:21:41+00:00

Long term, it comes down to: fuck motivation, rely on dedication.

MGTOWch · 2019-03-27T22:53:38+00:00

I too struggle but here are things that helped me :

stop smoking (really, boost of oxygen mean boost of energy and clear thinking)
program things (I have WeekCal on my phone and have programmed work time (planning) gym time (1day /2day free) and social things every time it happen (like bar or friends every week) so I know when I’m occupied and then I do what I want the rest of the time (or program some hiking or others things in advance even if I finally don’t do them)
set up goals and don’t rush. Like when unemployed, if you rush everyday making 1000 research and letters and never get a positive, you will lose faith. Make little steps
you need 21 day of one thing so it become a routine, might take longer if you do it only one day per week, but it will still become a routine after a while.
don’t setup too much for what is your lifestyle. If you are a night clubber, go for it, but if you are a lone wolf like me take your time for you and don’t feel shame for not doing things like the others (and remember, they also have their problems...)

Finally, last advice, don’t try to make your life like the others seems to make. Do it your own way, and don’t feel shame for fishing all week all day long if this enlighten you !

Again, try to add more things, to add more movement, but don’t try to force and take the time you want, and do the things you want. Nobody is going to give you F at the end of your life because you played 2h more this week than going in « Da Club »

Hope it help !

Title	does anyone else have motivational problems?
Author	CreativeThought88
Upvotes	11
Comments	10
Date	March 27, 2019 8:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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