I wanted to get some guys opinions. The adage that men and women cant be platonic friends is true. Unless maybe that woman is unattractive, but then no guy would willingly spend time "hanging out" with an old woman, but I digress. I have come to realize that I was spending time with women in my life, in the back of my mind, wanting to have sex with them, but just never setting boundaries. I never saw any real problem with doing it, because it wasnt hurting anyone. But I have started to realize that women are essentially emotional vampires. They feed off of your emotions, and essentially dont need sex. Men need to set boundaries with this women in their lives. Refuse to spend time with a woman, unless she agrees to some kind of sexual reciprocation. Otherwise, focus on other things in life that makes you happy. Sex is always a phone call away anyway. Escorts are the best for that.