If I turn down a girl because she has a kid. I'm an asshole. She is a remarkable woman and I missed out. Her kid is a glooming representation of our future.

But if a girl turns down a man for having a kid. She doesn't deserve that kind of responsibility and stress. She has the right to focus on herself and make her life the way she wants it. That kid probably has anxiety problems anyways.

That's what I've observed and it's sickening. Consider this a red pill for the day boys.