An Ex that I was with for a few years a long time ago and caused me a lot of drama with her boyfriend has contacted me on facebook once again. We split over a decade ago. I had her blocked but she must have multiple accounts. She likes to stir up shit. I talked to her over 6 years ago . She was still with her boyfriend. She acted as if she considered cheating on him with me. Whether she would or not who knows. They have 2 kids together. He is wanted and cannot enter the state without risking going to jail. She comes back periodically to visit with her family.

She messaged me and I accepted her request because I figured I could use the amusement. He waved, I said hi, she asked how I was and I said great, she said thats good with a smile. Nothing else. I am not going to ask how she is, I don't care if. If she wants to ask me questions, I will be glad to tell her how great my life is. She can kiss my ass all she wants. I will say nothing more to her unless she say something. I have looked at her profile out of curiosity. I am willing to bet she is still with her boyfriend and visiting her mom again and just being nosey out of boredom. Anyhow, I have discovered on her profile that she lost an unborn child a few months ago. They were planning for a third child and it died inside of her.

​

This is a sad situation, but I can't say that I have feelings for her or her boyfriend. I don't really feel sorry for them. Maybe it is bad on my part. I am not sure what to say if she tells me of this, looking for sympathy.