So I don't have much success in the online dating game but I try. I started talking to a girl an hour flight away. We talk for 4 days before I mentioned I think she is the best girl I could ever ask to date.

She likes that compliment and promises to spend the whole weekend with me. This was exactly what I wanted to hear. We keep talking and things are so good I go to bed asleep happy.

16 hours before my flight she mentions she is sick but that she will be better when I arrive.

I get some flight trouble she talks me through it awesome I lost my luggage she offers to lend me a sweater and a phone charger. I thought this showed real kindness and it took a while after I landed but I went near her house and got coffee with her. We spend an hour together and she flirts with me and talks to me smiles and laughs looks me deeply in the eyes, bounces her boobs and most of all. She acted just like me and my ex did when we first met.

Anyway she and I even pick up medicine before I walk her home. She than tells me to go have fun in the city by myself and that I should go clubbing.

Next day she doesn't see me at all. Another day comes and I asked her if she is still sick she completely ignores the question. I don't bother but it was so hurtful having gone all the way there only for her.

I travel back to my city. She says it was great meeting me and she loved soul searching with me.

I still want a relationship so I mention something about sex. And she goes all "oh boy..if you think I'm looking for good sex you have no idea who I am"

"Even if you lived in Germany I would only be your friend"

"I'm not attracted in you or interested in a long term relationship"

This is where in called her out on being crazy. We met on a dating site where she had my address and photos and she swiped right on me.

I pointed out to her how she acted on our hour together and she said she was just being kind and then she said. It's because of boys like me a girl cant be nice.

... Anyway, eventually, she started ignoring and just blocked me.

Before she told me she got sick she mentioned to me learning that I like smoking pot disappointed her but that if I don't let it ruin my life it's ok.

My profile said I smoke. She thought I meant cigs. That's my best guess knowing everything we did and said as to how she changed her mind about me, seemingly before we even met face to face. She didn't seem so sick not to spend some more time with me.