I’m all for self improvement, and I think that us, men, have the potential to be outstanding human beings. But, the only sub for this specifically is a sub where people only antagonize women for the weirdest reasons.

And I feel like feeling this way prevents us from reaching our true potential and blinds us from the reality of things, making a lot of us complete dumbasses.

If we want to ascend we need to understand thoroughly the way we work and the way people and this world work, that includes women. Having a lot of empathy has never been a thing for soy boys — it’s what made us as a species survive for so long and put us on the top of the food chain in the first place.

We need to stay strong, but also smart enough to understand our mistakes, and people’s mistakes. They should not define who we are now or our inherent value, because people move on and get better, we get better. But we can’t ascend to a higher manhood if all we’re feeling is bitterness and resentment against women.