So ive had a few accounts here over the past year. Same story as others, cohabitated with and provided for emotionally abusive and unstable girlfriend of 6+ years, discovered she was fucking many guys on the side the entire time.

Ive been single mgtow since then, almost a year now and my mind is still somewhat fucked from the prior abuse.

Like others here, ive sometimes relapsed with online dating. Something new ive noticed, and saw mentioned in other posts here, is the rate at which thots are flaking on plans.

In my now three-week relapse with online dating (im back posting here, to get out of this) ive made plans with 11 people and 8 flaked (sidenote: 2 of 3 i met were batshit insane, 3rd was 50lbs heavier than advertised and i made small talk for 15 mins with the whale before leaving)

I think theres a few reasons they flake, but one ive seen is that they will make plans in a more rational "settle" mode, and then at a later time they feel disgusted and repulsed by the decision and CANNOT settle. So they cancel or ghost, feel empowered, and start swiping for their 666 (any day now!)

There are other reasons they flake, but this is definitely a big one. It wasnt until i experienced this that i really felt the epidemic of mental illness that seems to be in so many women now. This flaking thing feels like a really big and new trend.