So before going my own way, I would try to “date” some girls, but mostly I was just looking for sex, most girls actually were on par with it, but I had a select few, who when we would “hang out” the first time, they would deny me sex, claiming not on the “first date”, when they never mentioned a date, and we never really go anywhere but for coffee and for a smoke session at a park at night or chill at my house, nothing fancy but in comfy clothes and all, I’m just asking, does the girls that denied me the sex on the “first date” hang outs I had, are they playing me or were they serious about trying to commit to a relationship.