Wrong. He isn't dating them all at once. THEY are dating HIM all at once. Big difference.

They are all competing for one man. That's the natural state of women. They don't want a LOT of men to compete for THEM. Instead, they want to compete with other women for one single, high value male.

Case in point: Women go bonkers for celebrities. "I just told my husband that I love Chris Prat so much that I would suck his dick right in front of my whole family!" - They build shrines to 'their men'. Teenagers plaster their walls with pictures of Justin Beiber (or whatever boy is famous at the time). They write fan letters and they get together with their friends to all say together, "We love this guy." - If one girl outgrows that shit and then burns her Beiber posters, she gets death threats from other girls.

I think the dating shows work very well because they recreate that dynamic of MANY women chasing ONE guy. That's how women know a guy is good. Are you a band? You need to have lots of videos of women chasing you and you running for your lives. Create the perception of that dynamic, and then it becomes real.

Conversely, what happens when one man vies for one woman? She treats him like shit, and reacts with disgust. They'll insist that they want their flowers, but if you give flowers to a girl... she's going to shit ALL over you.

What do women want? They want the man that's wanted by ALL the other women. They don't even think on their own. They follow a herd mentality. When they do have a boyfriend and they go to work. They show pictures to their friends and then engage the herd mentality. They'll decide as a group if the boyfriend is ok, or if he should be dumped. Something privaate happen in your lives? It ain't private anymore. She'll go to the herd, and after getting a biased, partial narrative, the herd will decide how she gets to feel and how she gets to think. She doesn't decide, the herd decides.

Meanwhile, the herd continues to fawn over famous men, and every single member of that herd knows they would say goodbye to their boyfriends in a heartbeat if they could jump on the penis of a man that all the other women want. They openly talk about it. I think that's a pretty boring conversation, but for them... it's a universal conversation. It happens whether they are educated doctors or poverty stricken street sweepers. All women want the community cock.

If the rich or powerful guy already has a wife, they don't care. They'll cheat. But if their boyfriend cheats on them, they lose their minds. Hmm, why is that? Hypergamy is highly competitive. Every girl in the office knows the career and status of every husband of every girl in the office. They know the salaries. They know how tall.

Men talk about their wives, but good fucking god. We talk about what we love. She's pretty, she's nice, she has a nice smile, she cooks really well, she's good with the kids. Not ONE guy at the office knows the salary of a wife of the other guys. Not one guy knows how tall, how well educated... none of that shit really matters. Men focus on the person and the personality. Women focus on the game and the hypergamy. They want the status of the guy.

By the way, if a woman can get a high status male to fuck her, then she gains status with her peers. "I just fucked the drummer from Aerosmith!" - If men fuck around, they lose status. Interesting how that works. Women don't just date up, they also 'fuck' up. That explains a bit of cheating behavior and also dead bedrooms. A lot of dead bedrooms come from women that feel they probably could have gotten a better guy, and maybe they still can or should. So they hold back on sex, emotions, and all forms of love. They do this without thinking.

Maybe they go to couples counseling for a few years, and they struggle to make 'progress'. But the counselor ought to remember in the back of his head that if the husband were the drummer of a famous band, his wife would ride his cock TONIGHT and every night. Just like that. No counseling needed. She would find herself just like that.

Ever hear a woman say, "Gee, thanks but I gotta find myself before I can date you." - Oh fuck no. You ain't finding your SELF, you just need to find a guy that other women want. Then your life and all of your actions will immediately make sense. You'll rush at that dude with ZERO restraint or hesitation. You'll make babies, then care for those babies, and you'll never second guess your position in society as a feminist or any bullshit... the bullshit all evaporates instantly because you got a high value man and you're following your nature.

Women that aren't ready to get serious yet, or aren't looking... Same story. If they see the right guy, then that fixes everything in their made up narrative about how life and feelings are complicated, and social roles are whatever. They just need to bag the right guy.

The natural state is that many women chase after one man. That makes shows like the Bachelor VERY popular. Women spend so much of their lives daydreaming and fantasizing about their prince. So many stories about princes. The Bachelor is just a story of a high value man that plays out in real time. What I find highly interesting is that the story is fabricated. They have cut scenes, interviews, they really ham it up that people have eyes for him and are talking highly. They have hearts for him too. But more often than not, the dude will be an electrician or engineer. I.e. A well paid profession, but NOT a rock star.

But be BECOMES a rock star. They create it. They create it. They create herd approval. What women want and value isn't even real. It's highly subjective. It's emotional and primal, not logical. It's also herd driven. But that is also what drives their capacity for love.

Why do women want flowers? Because they generate herd status and herd approval. The flowers aren't for her to see, they're for everybody else to see. What do women do when something interesting happens? Snaaaaapchat - to the herd. They even share pictures of their food. So even their food gets judged by others.

Men, go your own way. Why would you want to enter into a serious, supportive and committed relationship with a person that would try you in the court of herd mentality on a daily basis? Do you really want to date someone that needs to tell all their girlfriends your height, your earnings, all the private details of your life? And they'll let their friends decide on your relationship or how she will fight with you? When she has a fight and makes a point, she's probably following a script written by others that don't even know the full story. Now you know part of why the argue in such strange and dramatic ways. "Hey, act hurt, and see if he rescues you."

Ya know, design by committee has always been a terrible idea that doesn't work out. But if you get with a woman, she's following the committee.

When she goes to the bathrooms with her friends, they're talking about you. That's herd mode. You wouldn't do that to someone that you love, but almost all women do that. If the herd says you don't make enough money, they will say that you need to be dumped. Go love someone with more money, who is taller, who has herd approval. Everything is herd approval from attraction to breakup. When a girl breaks your heart and she doesn't know why, and it's not you, it's her... No it ain't, it's the herd. The herd will ways come first, it will be more important to her than your marriage.

Women generally have very low self esteeme unless they can generate herd approval for themselves. Hmm, how to do that? Hypergamy!

She would cheat on you without remorse (with any higher value male). The chances of meeting the drummer from Aerosmith might be low, but hey, there's garage bands too. And they get a lot of fans to jump up and down, cheering for them. I.e. they get herd approval too. That's good enough in her book.

Men, it's not worth it, go your own way. After a relationship, she's going to take half your assets before going on to be with other men while continuing to chase the fairies of ego driven herd approval and group think. Do herds show a LOT of emphatic support for divorce? Yes, yes they do. Women initiate about 70% of divorces. Hmm. GYOW.