Married for 13 years. Become hell almost immediately. She wanted to fool around and did. I ended up doing the same. When she found out she went ballistic. Came home from work one day, and she and my daughter were gone. Got a letter shortly after that I was refusing to pay child support. Just finished child support a few months ago as my kid turned 18, and the ex monkey branched to another husband within a month of our divorce. Fell into depression for about a year then changed my life completely. Moved overseas and have never been happier. Think and live for yourself first.