Is that semen I taste?

15 points•62 comments•submitted by ssjromance to r/Marriage

Before I married my wife, we broke up for a few weeks. Before we got back together, she promised that she never hooked up with another guy during our short breakup.

Fast forward years later - just a few months after we got married. I caught her in a lie concerning her sexual past and asked her to come clean. Among other surprises, she told me that just before we got back together during this short break-up she had a one night stand with a stranger. They had sex 4 times that night and into the morning. He wore a condom at first but sometime during or after the first romp he took it off. The next 3 romps and perhaps even during the first romp he went bareback. My wife was sore for days after this. Incidentally my wife thought, like a dumb blonde, by having sex with this guy he would want to start dating her. He never talked to her again - SURPRISE!!!

About a week later she begged me to get back together with her. I agreed only if she hadn't been with anyone else. She adamantly denied being with anyone. I'm quite sure we had sex that same night we got back together. I always performed oral on her because she doesn't orgasm without it. I can't get it out of my head that my wife (girlfriend at the time) hid this from me and then allowed me to perform oral on her after just having the bang of her life with a guy discharging who knows what into her. She claims she saw no evidence of him finishing and claims she had no idea he was bareback even though she insisted he wear a condom during the first romp but never brought it up again.

I find this absolutely disrespectful and disgusting to me - not only her being capable of doing such a thing during such a short breakup (we hardly had time to catch our breath after a 2 year relationship) that she would risk herself and MYSELF to STD's from some stranger not to mention her knowing that while I'm going down on her I'm swallowing any remnants of this dude's fluids. I am so disgusted about this, not to mention her other lies, that I don't think I can stay married to her.