I am really grateful that I have rational thinking skill when it comes to everything and I have learned to only listen to my own voice instead of random opinions of others. In the end of the day you should make yourself happy instead of wasting your time to make one other human being happy for sacrificing your own happiness. You will have people telling you what to do and that is one of the things I hate the most about some people. They are telling you things that will serve no benefit for you but/or are made to bring you down.(would like to see some examples from you guys) If I see some random white knight/mangina behavior I am like "can this guy even think for himself, what benefit does he get from it". but aside from that always make decisions and decide on your own terms for your own sake. Thanks everyone for the education I needed to get at this level. Youtube videos, books and a mind.

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