I used to get upset when I thought about the times I was rejected by women. It just hit me as I was reading posts in this sub that I should be grateful. Those women actually did me a favor. Reading how some of you guys got royally screwed over by ex-wives made me grateful that I never went through a bitter divorce or suffered the shock of infidelity. To the other guys in this sub who are still bitter about rejections, those rejections were blessings in disguise. It may not seem like it now. It will when you are living debt free with no dependents.