Having intimate experiences with opposite gender since teenage years is decisive for your whole future life.

When you are just growing up you dont know much ugly truth about this world, you are yet to blossom and form as an individual. You believe in good and bad, in real love and friendships.

During teenage years your hormones are almost at your peak, nature of girls is yet unknown to you, it's uncharted territory. You arent yet corrupted by years of porn and negative experiences with women and knowledge about their true nature.

You can get a boner just by looking at girl's legs in short skirt or just simply touching a girl's hand while walking will bring you to heaven's doors.

Having those early relationship experiences creates positive feedback loops. You learn about social mechanics faster, you learn about relationship chemistry, about girls' behavior. You feel comfortable around women.

You are getting validated as a person and as a man. You feel accomplished for your years, you have more energy and drive to do things and succeed in them. You gain respect in your peer male groups, you get female friends.

You create vital positive memories which you will later fall back on during tough times, which will keep you going.

But when you get older you realize that sex is just sticking your dick inside a piece of meat, organ which women use to manipulate males for their own benefit. There's no excitement in this, you are too blackpilled already. It's just your bilogy call for this physical act. You are already disgusted by the realization how women minds work, how shallow they are, how unreal and untruthful those moral sacred values you were taught in the childhood and adolescence.

It's over.