"-From a personality standpoint, there is still a ginormous vacuum as to what is expected from guys. Far too many women only seem to appreciate the positive personality traits of a man when he fits into the two categories listed above. I know this because my daughter is your typical American teenager. She constantly brings home guys who are complete jerks to her, and honestly make me want to beat the shit out of them when they talk to her in a demeaning way. I’d rather her bring home an average looking guy who will treat her like a human being than some kind of star athlete who treats her like a rag. I’ve made it a point not to meddle in her dating life because I know first hand what a broken doorbell that is. She cannot even comprehend what a beautiful, smart young woman she is; any boy would be lucky to have her. She’ll learn her worth eventually. "

https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-biggest-misconception-people-have-about-life/answer/Mikhail-Konnisuvich