Having some issues up in my mind.

throw_7 · 2018-08-29T07:47:06+00:00

I remember when I was in exactly your shoes a solid 15 years ago.

The mistake that I made when I was your age was confusing fictional women, the women in movies, the women in video games, the women in books, the women in Shakespearean plays, etc. with real women.

Fictional women are what men wish women would be. Real women are what women really are. BIG difference.

I was so up in the clouds at the thought of being with somebody with flawless loyalty, where we treat each other with love and respect, that I would enjoy spending ever waking minute together, study together, travel together, go to the same classes together, text message each other, eat lunch together, etc. etc.

I was so excited about going on dates and meeting women because I thought that they would be just like all the fictional women you learn about growing up. Just absolutely flawless in every way.

Then you get hit by reality. With a real woman I found that you're not able to do the things you want, you're not able to buy the things you want, you're not able to go to the places that you want, you're not able to eat the foods that you want, you're not able to watch the movies that you want, etc. etc.. It's all about "compromise" and "making sacrifices" and "give and take". Those things are baaaad. They bring unhappiness and they come with every relationship that you will ever have with real women.

Once I realized that fictional women and real women are completely different. It was a lot easier to push real women aside.. In fact, I've thought about buying a Gatebox so I could live with a fictional woman. So much better than real women.

On the other hand, you are in college. Women won't be any hotter than they are in college so you might as well take advantage of it while you can. Just make sure to wrap it up.

throw_7 · 2018-08-29T08:08:37+00:00

In regards to your comments about not wanting to be a drone. I think that you are not realizing how fulfilling it is to have a job.

I look forward to the challenges that I run into at work. Some of the biggest challenges that I've had to deal with in my life were in the workplace and I built some pretty good memories of overcoming those challenges, either my myself or as a team with some great coworkers.

I could tell you about the story where Microsoft pushed out a quality roll-up patch that broke functionality that was business critical where we were looking at a situation on a Sunday morning call where thousands of employees would show up to work Monday morning, boot up their PCs, and then not be able to do anything productive because the servers would be down. We couldn't roll back the patch because it also included a security vulnerability fix for a vulnerability that also went public that same weekend and they couldn't risk a single PC getting exploited. We got on a call with Microsoft, they compiled a new patch just for us, they wrote a whole Microsoft KB article on the bad quality rollup patch, and we got the new compiled patch pushed out to hundreds of servers within hours. All in a day's work.

Got2B22 · 2018-08-29T07:09:18+00:00

your job doesn't have to be your life

either buckle down for a few years to make your fortune, or work less hard making time for hobbies and passions outside of work (what those are you'll need to find on your own)

cafeorange · 2018-08-29T06:38:48+00:00

Theres no free lunch

FrenchGhoster · 2018-08-29T08:13:03+00:00

Man you're so young, you will find a girl who will give you love. Just make sure you dump her 6 months in the relationship, that's when the butterflies in her are not enough to keep her entertainned and she will start drama.

Personnal experience: never kissed, hugged or fucked until I was 22 years old; depressed from age 14 to 20; started focusing on myself when I was 20, and I feel better since. I do understand the pain, cuddling is better than sex imo.

RedHattedPhilomath · 2018-08-29T15:12:18+00:00

I hear ya man. In terms of worrying about being a drone, I’m the same way. Here’s what I’ve figured out: there’s a finely tuned scale that you must have to balance your survival and your happiness. You want money of course, but you also don’t want to slave away to get it. All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy! So I would recommend heavily researching the paths and goals you have and wish to take. Hope this helped. :)

Title	Having some issues up in my mind.
Author	TRU3B0S5
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	August 29, 2018 6:36 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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