Heartbroken 17yr old feeling lost..

Science4Lawlz · 2018-06-22T02:49:46+00:00

You'll be alright brother. Pick yourself up and move forward. Invest in yourself. PM me if you need advice or support. You got this brother! Walk on!

ConstantChinner · 2018-06-22T02:44:35+00:00

Never buy women anything. They won't appreciate it and will actually resent it, and they are never deserving of it anyway. You didn't lose that much. Consider it a big, cheap lesson you got in female nature.

2018-06-22T03:26:42+00:00

I remember being 17. Chasing the same stupid girl. She led me on. I was always there for her. She ended up with my best friend.

lnot · 2018-06-22T03:53:09+00:00

It hurts like hell sometimes, but that is life. Hang in there, you will be stronger tomorrow and every day after that. These are the pains we all go through as we become men. Every bad thing that happens to us, every hardship we endure, becomes an experience we can use to help the next guy when they go through the same. Who better to help a fallen brother, than those who have gone before. Trust me when I say, not too long in the future you will look back at this and laugh. Like the old saying goes, "Time heals all wounds" and it is true.

Science4Lawlz · 2018-06-22T03:55:49+00:00

i wish i could go back in time and hug my 17 year old self. all the pain i went thru, trying to figure out why my romance and love just wasn't matched, even when my sexual value was higher than the girls i dated. so many lies, cheating, bullshit, monkey branching.

you have some rough years ahead as your hormones go into full flux, but dont' worry, by age 30 you won't give a shit and be very very happy if you never marry.

i've been there, it's ok to cry. its ok to be vulnerable. just never rely on a woman ever again and you'll find a strength greater than anything you thought possible.

"it's only until we annihilate ourselves over and over again can we find the thing in us that is indestructible."

rooster-one4 · 2018-06-22T04:04:37+00:00

First rule is there is no such thing as a girl or of our league, just girls that will demand more. Then they'll use those demands as justification for acting like they do, that the world owes them even more. It's a good experience to have to be honest, what you're going through... Not saying you deserve the pain, but you do deserve any event in your life that makes you deeply reflect on reality, good or bad. It's how we get stronger.

feedmecarrots · 2018-06-22T02:49:17+00:00

We have all been there. While you heal, it hurts like hell. Be glad that she only took you for a ride for the cost of the gift card.

Pete_Maverick · 2018-06-22T11:23:24+00:00

only for a major fuck up to happen at school and for her to cut me off

She probably planned this to break up with you and tell you it's your fault.

Do not fall for these traps and blame yourself.

Move on, feeling lucky to have dodged one nasty bullet.

sh1tlandpony · 2018-06-22T11:50:53+00:00

Firstly, this is ONE girl. You probably weren't the right person for her because your desperation came across like it does in this message. Sorry lad, but you seem like a good kid and I'm really sorry your heart is broken, but she's one girl and she's not deserving of anymore of your attention. Move on, be strong, believe in yourself, make yourself happy and one day someone will find you or you'll find them, either way. But you're also just 17, there's so many more things to experience in life than just this. You'll be ok.

RunawayGrain · 2018-06-22T14:24:59+00:00

So yea I used to think this MGTOW shit was kinda just men hating on women because they themselves were screwed over by women

Most events don't just happen for no reason. Lot's of guys woke up to the truth through way more adverse circumstances than what you describe here.

i too this day have no idea why she did this or continued to make me believe i had a chance with her

Lots, and mean lots of girls get a little power trip off of stringing guys along like that.

i even got her a 65 dollar Sephora gift card for her birthday part

You're offering, don't be pissed because she's taking. You're basically trying to pay her to pay attention to you, and she's getting off on that even more.

mybown dad didn't even call ik thats outta the blue im just so fucking hurt dude

If not getting a happy brithday hurts, wait until you get a divorce, she takes half your stuff, a good chunk of your checks. I got slammed at a young age just like you did. Trust me, it's a blessing in disguise.

So here is the silver lining for you. You can get out there an make yourself something you love. You've been woke early and you've got a good chance of avoiding the mistakes that dog a lot of other guys.

HorusEyeDrops · 2018-06-22T03:49:08+00:00

A helpful idea I read while I was lost once: "Remember, there were times when you didn't have these negative thoughts about life."

Try getting "lost" in nature.

MrMannheim · 2018-06-22T06:04:41+00:00

Live and learn, brother. Millions of men go through this dozens of time before they get the big picture, and sometimes with far more dire consequences than a "broken heart".

Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and live life to its fullest. It's up to you whether you learn your lesson or not.

cantgetadoctor · 2018-06-22T10:00:40+00:00

You're 17, your testosterone is at its peak. Use that extra energy to better yourself, pursue a career, learn a few hobbies, maybe elaborate a plan to be financially independent by 30-35. You are still very young, you'll meet true friends on your journey.

You are actually very lucky to be on the MGTOW path that young. Having that knowledge that young is tremendous.

There's guys that went MGTOW in their 50s after the loss of their house/car/kids and they found happiness.

Trust me they would kill to be in your shoes at 17.

Good luck mate, you'll be fine.

OptionsReprimanded · 2018-06-22T18:03:03+00:00

Females get enjoyment out of having dominion over men of any kind.

Title	Heartbroken 17yr old feeling lost..
Author	jarrett121
Upvotes	31
Comments	17
Date	June 22, 2018 2:40 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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