So I’ve been a lurker on this sub for a while and noticed something off. Bare with me, I know I will probably get a lot of shit from this but what the hell its the internet. This sub’s description is “This subreddit is for men going their own way, forging their own identities and paths to self-defined success” yet, majority of post here are about how you all hate women and you want nothing to do with them. Why is that? Most post seem full of hate and disgust towards women, ranting on about what they did and why the “gave up” on them. Is that really true to the description of this sub? I noticed that when someone tries to help an OP he only takes what is good to him not everyone around him, i.e. OP: “fuck my ex, she is to blame for all my misery and every other women” Response, “work on yourself and become a better person as appose blaming others” Op’s response: “half of this feels like an attack on me , I’ll just use the good half” is this true to this sub? Most of this sub feels toxic, is this what this is about? If so, that is fine with me, this is your community. But if not, why is this being allowed? FYI: I am a male, mid twenties, working on my career and living live as it comes. I don’t blame anyone for any of my misery or success, other than myself. I love all the useful information on the wiki/about on this sub, it’s just the consistent post of whining and blame to others as appose to taking responsibility for your own actions, that made me ask this.