Whole thing starts with that saying "There's plenty of fish in the sea". This is the lie, the lie that there's an endless supply of decent women out there, yours for the taking.

From my own experience at 40. It's really not from lack of trying. But it isn't also that I'm going on millions of dates. It just seems like there's a massive shortage of anything datable, and the way society is structured it's hard to impossible to meet single women. Life's just too damn serious these days.

So you end up playing the date game. A horrible interview like process which ends up costing you money. Followed by let downs and all kinds of bullshit. These days I'm the one doing the rejecting if I ever get to a date. Problem is getting there at all.

Which brings me to my point. Since I'm not after children. Sex for me is a recreational pleasure. I do not want to reproduce.

As much as I do want "The unicorn or close enough" LTR. During this life long pursuit, you know at times I just feel like straight up sex. And here is where hookers allow you to hack the system.

I've just come back from one. I really wasn't expecting much, since the place I phoned was a brothel, and I usually only do call girls. But I decided to go. It was a pretty far drive to some place in Poland. Only reason I went is I had phoned and asked for a specific girl who's photos I liked from the net - turns out she was working. Also the place is open 24/7, so no rush to get there.

So as I arrive, park the car, notice only flashy cars parked outside. and go to the door. Ring the bell. As the door swings open. I notice perhaps the hottest girl I've ever seen in my life. Wearing lingerie.

Now I know when a guy says "hottest girl he's ever seen" it's a questionable claim. But I swear I could not have constructed a more perfect looking girl.

So now I'm standing by the door, and to the right side I see a corridor leading down to the main area where there is a bar and most likely the girls. I thought yeah, this girl is the hostess, most likely just there to greet guests.

Immediately I asked her. Are you available. "Yes I am". "So let's go right now". Shit without a moments hesitation she says "Ok sure". And we walk up some stairs directly. I didn't even look around.

So this place looked like a 5 star hotel. Huge rooms. She says take a shower first. Gives me a towel. Obviously I showered before arriving but I comply. Huge bathroom. Bathroom was bigger than my bedroom. After the shower back to the actual room, huge. Really upmarket furniture.

She's not there, I wait around , and I can hear some high heels coming back my way. She arrives all cheery and does this hug and greet "I'm here :)".

So now she wants to start getting undressed. So I tell her just stay like that. I lie on the bed and she's standing in these high heels in lingerie. I swear perfect skin, perfect shape body, and what feels like some high class FHM shoot.

She then looks me straight in the eyes, slightly shy look, and starts to slowly strip off watching my reaction. She must have been 21. Really petite frame. When she got to her panties she turned around and took them off revealing the best looking ass I've ever seen.

Then she turned around again revealing the perfect gap. That triangle shape between a woman's legs when she has a hot body.

So now this 10 is standing in front of me.

I won't even bore you with the details of the actual sex, only I will say she masturbated in front of me. She made cumming noises in my ear. She bit my neck, and she even let me kiss her on the mouth.

Afterwards we had a chat, I got her real number for future calls to bypass the club she worked for. Or to at least make sure she was really working.

So now let's do the maths. I paid $53.50 for GFE like sex with the hottest women I can imagine. And while this maybe it's the bargain of the century. Well considering what I earn it certainly won't kill me paying this once or twice a month.

So let me state, I do not actually believe a woman in the wild this hot would want to have sex with me. So the amount I would have to spend would like like treating her to some luxurious vacation or something maybe then.

But even to get a 7 into the sack requires so much mental work and sitting through so much bullshit, hearing about her exes and all her bullshit talk, sitting through hours of useless courting rituals only to have her usually turn out to be a total cunt in the end.

And for what? For "real sex". I just had sex that was as good / better than any real sex I've ever had. It's a real hack to the system.