I'm red-pilled, but I have these desires and cravings for intimacy. Not just sex but like someone to open up to, cuddle with etc. I know this is a fantasy, but I still can't get over it.

I'm not sure if this is biological or social conditioning, but I need to move past it.

For example, I'm having a very hard time getting over a girl that's not into me. I don't know why its been so hard, we wouldnt be a good match anyway. And I know that eventually I would end up getting fucked over in some way.

I'm young so maybe its just raging hormones? I want to learn how to be comfortable being alone, but its not easy for me. How do you guys do it?