I’m using this subreddit as a last resort since Yahoo Answers always gives me corny answers like, “find a woman you truly love”, and don’t answer when the question is more than a few sentences. I’m an 18 year old virgin and I have no experience with females because I’m overweight and sometimes run low on confidence. I’m not a total slob, but I’m muscle/fat. I’m 5’10”/5’11”, played varsity football in high school, but never had sex in high school. I have had females send me strong signals in that time period, but never knew how to act on them.

As a matter of fact, many times I didn’t even realize that they were signals until after the situation had ended. I want to get laid, not to fill a void or anything of the sort. I just want to get laid solely for the experience. I am now a freshman in college and I commute, so college nightlife could get crossed off the list of possibilities. I need help fellas. I constantly grow depressed at the fact that other dudes would get ass so easily and here I am at 18, trying to make up for lost time.