I want to make a quick post of a pretty complicated topic, but in essence what women are doing when they try to improve men in the relationship is expressing their hypergamy by wanting to be with the best mate

They basically see u as not good enough, or not as good as someone else, but aren’t willing or able to leave and the more insecure and insane that they are, the crazier their behavior will get

A reasonable woman will give you your freedom and support you in what you’re doing, to n the other hand you got women that become complete control freaks or take their manipulation to an extreme (think the Shakespeare play Macbeth as a good illustration, or the movie girl gone)

The thing is, you may indeed be better with a woman, at least in the ways she deems you need to be better, but most of us are good enough already and have our own life to lead, but unfortunately if you sign that contract and don’t live up to her standards she will take half your shit. And then you will have to improve, just so you don’t end up on the street