How to master internal validation?

TowerOfMG · 2020-01-30T02:43:33+00:00

Stop giving a fuck about what people think of you.

DannyTTT55 · 2020-01-30T02:49:17+00:00

It's just something you do, you prioritise the way you look at yourself as opposed to what other people think of you, there's no secret to it

2020-01-30T04:16:05+00:00

A hobby is a good start - one where you create something. When you finally make something you are proud of, and want to show it off... don't.

Keep it to yourself, because you shouldn't give a shit if other people like the thing you are proud of. You do it for you, and nobody else.

After that, apply that concept to the rest of your life, and stop giving a fuck about what people think of you.

GoodMan_Gone · 2020-01-30T08:27:36+00:00

By stopping to try to. Other people have an opinion over you and v.v. But seeking something to validate yourself is IMO insane. If somebody is saying "I find myself ugly" all they're doing is comparing themselves with somebody else.

2020-01-30T12:23:31+00:00

I posted this elsewhere, on the same question.

Introspection. Get to know yourself. Your qualities, your flaws... And accept them. Once you realise that no one knows yourself better than you do, you will come to the conclusion that no one can judge you better than you. You* just* have to be self-conscious, honest and coherent.

There's a line in an old Limp Bizkit song which goes something like this:

I analyse every second I exist

Beatin' up my mind every second with my fists

2020-01-30T14:47:04+00:00

Remind yourself every once in a while that you are already a whole. You don't need to have anything else or anyone else to complete you. challenge yourself with things that develops your patience. Always think with your logic, not with your emotions. Read a lot. Cultivate in yourself.

BroscienceGuy · 2020-01-30T07:39:26+00:00

What skills do you wanna develop? Start developing it.

Just do what you want and stop giving a fuck. and love urself idk

TooAwareToCare · 2020-01-30T08:32:14+00:00

Do something meaningful only to yourself, and do it really fucking well.

jeetz09 · 2020-01-30T18:48:48+00:00

Start with removing social media

Title	How to master internal validation?
Author	JakeandOreos
Upvotes	12
Comments	10
Date	January 30, 2020 2:32 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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