How to not get bitter?

TowerOfMG · 2019-10-20T17:17:54+00:00

Stop giving a fuck. Truly that's it. You have no incentives to be with a women, so just treat them like you'd treat a fellow man.

trseeker · 2019-10-20T17:35:07+00:00

Are you bitter at rattlesnakes? Poison ivy? Scorpions?

No, you are just aware of their nature.

Just realize their nature and accept it; that is what we men do, modify your expectations to fit reality.

Reacotay · 2019-10-20T17:04:41+00:00

Just hijacking this thread to also get some answer, brother. Stay strong!

DangZagnut · 2019-10-20T17:26:03+00:00

Stay strong? There’s not really a lot of work.

Find out what your bitter about, and stop doing that.

PyshconauticalNovice · 2019-10-20T17:10:43+00:00

Whenever my ex wife cheated and left me I picked up numerous hobbies, Everytime she'd come on my mind I'd go work on my Aquarium. Pick something very tedious or frustrating, keep the mind going

Flat4DIT · 2019-10-20T17:15:20+00:00

Living well is the best revenge. Focus on improving yourself as much as possible. Prove that she was nothing but an anchor for you.

Peter196513 · 2019-10-20T17:19:22+00:00

I stay strong WHILE I sometimes am bitter (for good reason). The bitterness comes and goes and is an excellent reminder of why I chose to go my own way in the first place. 54, 3 mastersdegrees, two children (24&22), divorced 12 years ago, goodlooking, I count my blessings everyday. MGTOW now for 3 years and loving it. Total celibacy, no problem. Minimalistic lifestyle leaves me a savingsaccount with which I can support my children. They don't ask for it, I just send it to them. So: keep your Pecker Up mate, most of our fellow- RP-MGTOW-MRA will have the same experiences as you have. I'm Austrian by birth, live in the Netherlands and I often meet guys that feel the same.

DON'T PANIC! (quote from The Hitchhikers Guide to the Universe)

FlintAustin · 2019-10-20T17:22:00+00:00

Don't see it as an isolated problem.

If you fall down, it hurts. If someone else pushes you and you fall down, it hurts more. Human psychology.

However, do not see the woman as the instigator for your fall but rather the gravitational force that pulled you down. AWALT.

Ought to sting less. But now you know. Learn and adapt.

TyroftheSwift · 2019-10-20T18:08:12+00:00

As a man who lives in constant state if bitterness, I can tell you one thing. Forgive, then forget. It's difficult, but it's truly the only thing that mutes pain like this, it will never leave you, you won't ever truly forget. But you still have to try.
The biggest thing though is to realise human are flawed, and that we are going to hurt you again. But don't let that keep you bitter, try again, over and over again. Don't forget that without great joy, great sorrow would never be had. You can only feel this low and bitter, because at one point you were high and and life was sweet. Chase that high, don't get stuck down in the bitter trench. But that's up to you.

Title	How to not get bitter?
Author	pizza_less_cheese
Upvotes	11
Comments	10
Date	October 20, 2019 5:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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