So my mom is the godmother to this married couples child. They are sort of family in a way. They got married about a ten years ago. When they got married both of them were overweight and unappealing (by my standards). The wife got her gallbladder removed some time ago which led to her substantial weight loss. And now she claims they never have sex because he disgust her. There are a lot of reasons why they aren’t having sex, but the reason he disgusts her is because she now feels she can do better. It’s only a matter of time before it’s over. The dude almost killed himself at the beginning of the marriage due to the sheer responsibility. The 10+ year marriage divorce rape is going to do him in.