So I really try to avoid watching videos like this; [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyZX59nYiC0&t=18s&ab_channel=ToddVDating] as it makes me feel like shit that I'm "missing out" by not doing what these pickup artists [PUA's] are doing. For anyone who can't be bothered watching this video its a PUA showing a 40 minute example of this chick he wooed. Personally I'm not a fan of PUA's as I see them as just clowns trying to "figure out" women as if its a process or a system. But at the same time I'm jealous as I don't really take action with women [Was in a 1.5 year relationship but been out of that since December 2016, haven't had sex since...] and I simultaneously don't want to take a chunk out of my life to "conquer" them. I'd rather become such a fucking awesome person that I don't have to convince women to become attracted to me [which is what I've been doing throughout the past year, working out, figuring out my vision and surrounding myself with better people].

So do the men of MGTOW have any advice or tips for me? Please feel free to criticise as you seem fit.

A little disclaimer about me: I'm coming off of a strong relapse in the past two days [still feeling the brain fog] which is definitely not helping me feel this way.

- I've recently gone MGTOW which is why I'm definitely not after a LTR [long term relationship] these days, more so interested in casual sex... and yes I do understand that guys need to be the ones approaching but I haven't had the balls at all recently [which is why I'm going back to NoFap].

- Am an 18 yr old living in Melbourne [AUS]