Is This really the right path?

JMD173 · 2020-01-27T04:59:37+00:00

Your not even married and already hate feeling burdened and without your own space and time alone. Now, imagine that feeling you currently have but 3 times worse in a marriage that binds you into a contract. The choice is yours.

If anything, try to take charge and lead the relationship more how you want it to be, and make plenty of time for yourself. If she leaves, then fine. Let her go.

switchxscript · 2020-01-27T04:54:46+00:00

i was in the same position not to long ago and breaking it off and choosing this path will be one of the greatest choices you make , it’s really positive for what you want

ATTOJ19 · 2020-01-27T05:15:44+00:00

If you're not happy what's the point? How many times have we stared at a gorgeous girl with her boyfriend and thought of him as the luckiest man ever? But do you ever wonder that guy might be miserable? That guy might be you. The looks always fade bro, then all you're left with is her as a person. If her as a person doesn't make you happy the looks surely wont.

lifeofpov · 2020-01-27T05:40:37+00:00

If you love being by yourself, don’t want to take the masculine role in a relationship, and be a father then yeah maybe relationships just aren’t for you. Most likely she does want a family so letting her go might be the best thing for her and you.

Also biggest advice I can give you is to end a relationship early if that’s what you really feel is right. I wanted to break up with my ex like 2 months into our relationship but I felt so bad for her that I let that drag on for 2 YEARS! Breaking up with her was one of the greatest decisions I ever made. I wasted 2 years of my life being miserable, don’t do that to yourself. Also the longer you date her the more she’ll get attached so you’re not doing her a favor by staying with her just to break up in the end.

MonkeyShitStorm · 2020-01-27T05:52:17+00:00

No one can tell you which path to take. You need to go your own way. But more importantly, you need to communicate with this chick instead of letting your feelings fester.

Hecades · 2020-01-27T05:54:22+00:00

Not sure how old you are, but from this post, it really hits that you are overwhelmed by life and how fast it goes.

I suggest to take it slow - you can talk it out with your girlfriend and her parents if needed, explain it, propose some ideas how to deal with it, let them think about some other ideas about how to deal with it.

Sometimes it's good to just drop everything, walk away and start anew, but it doesn't always work the best, because you sound as if you have a problem with yourself, like you don't even know what you want from life - kind of depression? Perhaps look for a doctor and try to nail down the core of the problem.

I had a break like this before, and it was going worse and worse, and the issue was the hormone crash in my body, because apparently, I hate the idea of having kids so much, that my brain crashes the hormons so the chance I would have them is as small as possible, lol.

jhooperp · 2020-01-27T06:14:25+00:00

Not saying you are wrong but how do you know she is a virgin? These days the odds of that are slim and a lot of girls like to tell boys they are since they know boys like to hear it. I’m betting she really isn’t or she doesn’t consider what sexual stuff she’s done as not breaking her virginity. Just saying.

Title	Is This really the right path?
Author	taroopher
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	January 27, 2020 4:52 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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