Men ultimately date women to have sex with them. We put up with paying for dates, listening to them talk about stuff we really couldn't give a shit about, do activities with them and bond with them in hopes that our main goal which is sex and eventually consistent sex with her is achieved. No healthy, functioning non-gay man wants to bond with a woman just to bond with them and be friends. If you see a man and a woman that are "just" friends it's because he truly wants to have sex with her but was either denied or hasn't made it obvious yet and is just a beta orbiter or just had to see her every day within his routine because they're co-workers or classmates, etc... but isn't attracted to her. We are like two different creatures and share nothing fundamentally in common. They're emotional and we are logical. We truly prefer to bond with other men and animals for actual companionship.

Now, isn't this the same thing as a job? We don't go to work everyday because we like getting up in the morning and performing duties that become repetitive and stressful just because we want to. We do so to receive a paycheck so we can support ourselves and live healthy lives. But we are told by society to not show how we really feel during the "interview" which is the same as "dating" a woman. During the interview we put on a character that shows the employer that you are a great candidate for this position and will improve their company by being hired when truly we just want the money. During dating we are putting on a character to the women to show them that we can provide, we are caring and would make a great companion to them when truly we just want that pussy. A job interview is just faster than dating on average. Sometimes, yes people volunteer and perform work duties for free, but this is usually doing stuff that they actually enjoy or will "benefit" them in their career.

Unfortunately, the power of pussy is so strong and unless you're drop dead hot or have money growing on trees in your backyard (hot women will then come to you in abundance) in order to get what women are truly only worth a damn for (sex), you have to put up with the redundant crap which is dating and bonding to get it.