as a guy all you have to do to avoid cheating is avoid making advances towards other woman. simple, just don’t put yourself in that situation.

whereas women are in a position of having to actively and consistently avoid advances by many other potential suitors.

it’s easy to say no to a milkshake when you’ve gotta drive to the store and buy it, it’s a lot harder to say no if people are constantly bringing you milkshakes and you have no accountability for yourself.